Exit in Excellence: Creative Ways to Leave Your Wedding Reception

Gone are the days of rice being thrown, apparently the birds won’t let us be great. Necessity is the mother of invention and we have definitely come up with some amazing ways to drive off into the sunset. 

Let’s look at some creative ways Newlyweds make their way out into the world, and off to start a new life together.

Sparklers

Photo Credit: USA Sparkler Company

If your reception goes into the night, sparklers are a great option for your exit and really make a big impact on your photos. A company I love to send all my clients to is USA Sparkler Company They have an amazing variety of sizes and styles to fit the look of the sparkler you want. They have incredibly fast shipping, and the customer service is top-notch! Pro Tip: Make sure you have a safe way to extinguish the sparklers, like using a bucket filled with water or sand to ensure they are completely out.

Flower Petals

Photo Credit: Snake River Flowers

I love this idea for an afternoon or garden-themed wedding. Folklore tells us that throwing flower petals in this fashion symbolizes fertility. Select flower petals that match the colors of your wedding to brighten up your photos, as guests toss them in the air, the petals will cascade around you. It’s a beautiful sight to see captured on film. Be Earth-friendly and talk to your florist about getting red flower petals for your guests to toss on your day.

Ribbon Wands 

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A throwback to the days of old. I’m a sucker for all things Victorian era, and this is on my list of fun and swoon-worthy exits. These particular Ribbon Wands have bells on them, and when you shake them the soft fabric and ringing fills the sky signaling for a lovely couple to kiss. It's a romantic and whimsical thing to witness. 

Bubbles

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If you’re still able to have some daylight after your reception, bubbles are an easy, inexpensive, and clean-up free option. I mean, who doesn’t love bubbles? It brings us back to our childhood and all the nostalgia that comes with it. You can find them virtually everywhere, from your party retailer to Amazon, to Walmart. Remember, keep these out of the hands of very young children.

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading about these examples of how to supe-up your send-off. There are several other creative ways, however, these are just a few of the most popular you can do and save a few bucks. Now, please keep in mind that the venue you’ve selected may have a policy or two that may keep you from doing the send-off you may want, so be sure to check your contracts or speak with the venue management before ordering your items. As I always say, these tips aren’t for everyone, tweek and change what you want to suit your event in the best way possible. If you like what you’ve read, give us a like and share this blog on your socials. If you’re getting married or have an event to be planned, be sure to contact us today for a free consultation.

Until next time!

Keep it Chic,
XOXO
Amaris T.

The BIG Deal About Micro Weddings

The first time I learned the word “Elopement” I was 10. I was reading Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austin. I loved reading, and it was hard to find me without a book at that age. In the story, the youngest daughter, Lydia, had run off with the mysterious Mr. Wickham and I was wrapped up in the tale of young love and romance. We find out later that it was a plan that Mr. Wickham set up to extort money from Mr. Bennet, father of Lydia (and 4 other sisters). None the less, Lydia was elated over this “grand gesture” of love…or so she thought. Elopements and their meaning have really changed over the years. Now, venues and destination locations are pushing elopement packages and micro weddings to ensure and entice newly engaged couples to still have their dream wedding, just in a smaller capacity. As their popularity grows, especially because of the pandemic, it seems to be a viable option for those still wanting to tie the knot. The hot question on engaged couples minds “Is it for us though?” We try to answer that question today.

Let’s dive into Elopements and Micro Weddings!

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Elopements vs. Micro Weddings

All over the internet, we have started to see “Elopement Packages Available” or “Micro Wedding Specialist” popping up on our timelines, but what are they exactly? I see a lot of planners and venues using these terms interchangeably, however the differences are bigger than you may think. 

Elopements:

An elopement is when a couple literally takes off to get married. Sometimes they bring a friend or two to witness the nuptials, but for the most part, that’s it. Not a lot of people know, and in the traditional sense of the word, to elope is a super personal decision the couple makes between the both of them. There’s no venue to book or any of the typical wedding elements. It’s simply the couple and an officiant. 

Micro Wedding:

A micro wedding typically involves a guest count of 20 or less. The planner or venue who has presented the package has already received set prices from the vendors involved. Minus some simple color changes to make the wedding a bit more personalized, it’s pretty much all done. Just add a couple, shake, and get married. These weddings, although budget-friendly, doesn’t give much room for customization or more personalization compared to what the couple might be looking for. 

The Pros and Cons

Pros of Elopement

• The cost is very low. Just the travel expense to get where you’re going, and maybe hire a photographer to capture the day.

• No arguments from family and friends saying how you should do this or that on your wedding day. 

The Cons of Elopement

• You’ll be missing out on family and friends who care about seeing you marry the one you love, some may even get mad about the sudden secretive marriage.

• The romance element may not be in full effect, depending on how and when you got married. While some places boast beautiful scenery as a backdrop to your wedding, some may not be so nice. I mean, do all City Halls in this country use the same decorator? UUGH, that ugly wood paneling!

Pros of a Micro Wedding

• No muss, no fuss! Everything is pre-planned, and the price for all vendors needed is packaged in one payment.

• Small, intimate weddings are more desirable due to people limiting their guest count to slow the spread of COVID. 

Cons of a Micro Wedding

• There isn’t much say so on who the vendors are, or the look you may have had in mind for your wedding. You get what is already packaged and the listed vendors can’t be changed.

• The time slots are usually very small. Typical micro weddings are only a few hours versus the typical 5-6 hours of a regular wedding and reception.

How To Do It Right

If you have thought about forgoing the regular wedding route, I suggest (if the budget allows) to do either one of these options as a wedding/honeymoon in one. The Destination Wedding can be lower in cost than a traditional wedding, and just like a micro wedding package, everything is right there for you. Unlike a micro wedding, you will have a bit more say-so over cake flavor, flower choice, and other wedding planning decisions. You can still invite guests, but it’s up to them and their finances to be able to make it to your destination of choice. You can even have your wedding during the week to save money because while on an island, where you would mostly see the destination wedding setting, every day is a vacation day! The pricing can be cheaper during the week, unlike the popular weekend request. If I didn’t have such a large family, I would have definitely gone this route for my wedding hands down! All in all, this is a great way to have the best of both worlds, just make sure your passports are up to date and enjoy!

I hope I was able to better help you understand the differences between these popular styles of weddings. Now, as I usually say, these tips aren’t for everyone. Your wedding may require more or less in the planning process. Remember to take your time, and do your research to see if these options are right for what you and your fiance are looking for. If you like what you’ve read, give us a like, and share this blog on your socials. If you’re getting married or have an event to be planned, be sure to contact us today for a free consultation.

Until next time!

Keep it Chic,

XOXO

Amaris T.

Swoon-worthy Local Honeymoon Getaways

You’ve planned a romantic honeymoon getaway for after your wedding, The tickets were booked and the room reserved. The champagne would be cold and the nights would be HOT! Looking forward to the tropical paradise was the cherry on top of your big day plans. Then…CoVid hits. The reservation portal was closed and the tickets canceled. I know, It sucks, but don’t fret my pet because I am here to give you a light at the end of the tunnel. I have compiled a list of beautiful and romantic getaways that are just miles away from your front door.

Let’s check out these spectacular local(ish) honeymoon getaways!

Beautiful Beaches (Perfect for Late Spring and Summer)

Daufuskie Island, SC

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Full of beauty and the charm of the Gullah/Geechee culture, Daufuskie Island is just miles from the coast of South Carolina. The Island, while it only has an approximate surface area of 8 square miles, is big on its historic mark on the world. The island is actually on the National Registry for Historic Places due to the Gullah culture and Civil war history. Daufuskie is split into 5 parts: Haig Point Club and Melrose Resort are the private, members-only side of the island. Bloody Point is semi-private, and following up we have Oak Ridge and the Historic District. It’s a quick ferry ride from the shoreline and with sparkling beaches, relaxing spas, and amazing nightlife it’s sure to amaze your senses.

Hilton Head Island, NC

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It's called “America’s Favorite Island” for a reason. I remember coming to Hilton Head as a teen with my family on a mini-vacation. Seeing all the happy couples riding bikes on the beach made me want to get a bike too! I learned later that was not what they were smiling about LOL. It was so relaxing, and as a teen, if I had a good time doing nothing but chilling on a beach with the ‘rents it has to be an outstanding place. Hilton Head Island is more upscale than your average beach location. One of the most popular hotels on the island is The Westin Hilton Head Island Resort and Spa. Nestled right on the white sandy shoreline, enjoy spacious rooms, private beaches, and 4 on-site restaurants. Not to mention, guest access to Port Royal Golf and Racquet club for those who like to play. Yes, luxury at it's finest!

Majestic Mountains (Perfect for Late Fall and Winter)

The Smokey Mountains, TN

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Imagine this. Snow-covered mountain views, a log cabin with a cozy fire crackling, and some spiked apple cider with your love. This is totally doable, and less than 3 hours away in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. The Great Smokey Mountains can be as secluded as you want it to be, or as lit as the city is a short drive from most of the rental cabins in the area. The hubs and I went with a big group of friends just after we were married and had a blast. Enjoy the quaint country stores, hiking to some stunning waterfalls, and of course, and finish of the day with a dip in a hot tub in the evening as most of the mountain cabins have them. It’s another great way to warm up at night. 

Highlands, NC

Photo Credit: The Seasons in Highland

Also known as the “Aspen of the South”, this little luxury town is only 2 hours north of Atlanta. Southern Living Magazine has Highlands listed as one of its Top 5 Small Town Getaways and I could not agree more. It’s the ultimate mountain experience, surrounded by the Nantahala National Forest at an elevation of 4118 feet, so the views have got to be breathtaking! Enjoy some retail therapy in town, trail hiking, and top-rated fine dining. I’ve never been, but researching has definitely got me thinking to visit soon. 

Year-Round Romance

Savannah, GA

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My absolute favorite place to go at any time! It’s my Husband’s birthplace, and we visit at least 4 to 5 times a year. The Historic District has homes dating back to pre-civil war, and it was the only major city in Georgia that Gen. Sherman didn’t burn on his march through the south. With its moss-covered trees lining surface streets and cobblestone roads on River Street, Savannah is a sight to be seen and it’s just 3 hours southeast from Atlanta. What we like to do on our trips down is head to Tybee Island Beach during the day to lay out and relax, and at night hit up the local restaurants and bars in Ellis Square. You have the best of both worlds in one area. I love it!

Chattanooga, TN

Photo Credit: The Best Chattanooga Nightlife

A surprise of a good time was had in Chatt-town! It was our first wedding anniversary, and we had just completed the first of many stages of our home renovation. Homeowners will definitely understand. We decided to take a local trip and save money, to celebrate. I can’t begin to tell you how much I was blown away by the great time we had…but that’s the point of this blog, so I will do my best. We stayed at the Read Hotel, which is a Historic Hotel located in the heart of the city. The hotel’s charm was over the top, it even had a relic in the lobby. A phone booth with an old school rotary phone (20 Somethings and under would DIE! LOL)! We ate at some amazing restaurants and bar hopped in the city all night. In the morning, we drove through the mountains and looked at the spacious private homes in the area that overlooked the Tennessee River. It was so wonderful with the backdrop of changing leaves. If you have a day, I urge you to check it out and see for yourself. It’s only an hour northwest of Atlanta!

Photo Credit: Pic of the Hubs by Amaris Taylor

OK, so now you have my “can’t lose” list for local romantic getaways! If you live near or around Atlanta there’s no need to fly to any of these places, just gas up the car and pack a bag. This is only a short, condensed list meant to pique your interests about what’s nearby. Take time and look around the net, you never know what wonderful locations await right outside the city. At the end of the day, it’s about you and your spouse that’s all that matters. If you like what you’ve read, give us a like and share this blog on your socials. If you’re getting married or have an event you need to have planned, be sure to contact us today for a free consultation.

Until next time!

Keep it Chic,

XOXO

Amaris T.